Friday, January 30, 2009

Hostility

Doesn't it bother you when people get hostile with you? When they connect with you normally until you confront them with something that they really aren't making an effort to face? I hate it when they try to cover it up afterwards by saying that everything is alright or that they "understand" now; but that's never really the case. They might claim to have changed their minds, but it's most likely that they did that to makes things smooth over. Then they forget....

But do you? Do you really forget every time that you suffered because of the hostile answer or response of somebody else? Do you really understand where they are coming from or why they are making such a spectacular effort to sway you from your original idea or want? Do you really think that they care that much about you that they want to help you make a decision that will be the right one?


Well listen up, they probably do... Have you ever responded to somebody with the same hostility or the same judgement that is described here? Have you ever tried to get somebody to make you think the way you do or the way you want them to because it will benefit you? Stop that!! Don't you realize what your doing? You are stifling every single dream they ever acheived and taking that one white heart of hope way from them. You are snuffing out each candle of possibility and determination they light. But worst of all, you are doing the thing that you yourself can't stand...

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